Why does it have to all be the same? For self defense it's optimum to limit penetration and for hunting it's just the opposite.
I'd get some 125 grain jhp because nothing matches it for defense.
For hunting you want a heavy hard cast bullet for penetration from Buffalo Bore, Corbon, or Double Tap.
And you may want some .38 special because they are cheaper and fun for just shooting at targets or soda cans.
Exploit the versatility of the .357.