Along the lines of a S&W 41 (accuracy wise) look into a Benelli MP95E. When I first got mine, I thought it would be way too light and considered getting some barrel weights before even trying it. But once I shot it, it felt perfect. Now, after a couple thousand rounds, I wouldn't even think of adding weight. It fits me just right. The MP95 weights around 38 ounces, the S&W 41 weights around 41 ounces. Only 3 ounces different, but the Benelli feels much lighter, maybe balance?
I have lost 20% of the strength in my right arm due to a motorcycle accident years ago. So the Benelli has helped me get back into shooting a lot.