LCR vs J-frame
I was down to these two choices as well. From all the reviews that I read, I thought for sure the LCR was in my future. Then I went to a range that rented both guns. Much to my surprise, the S&W felt much better in hand and to shoot. Perceived recoil was less with the S&W. The final straw was the grips. Both stock grips are 2-fingered, leaving your pinky with nothing to hang on to. The S&W has plenty of 3-finger aftermarket replacements, whereas the LCR did not. As for trigger pull, I think that's something that can be blown out of proportion a bit. You've read enough reviews touting the LCR trigger to surmise that it's probably/arguably better out of the box. However, IMHO, you get used to your gun and how it shoots...so smooth or not, gritty or not, practice with it enough and you'll get used to it. This is especially true when you're not planning on buying multiple guns and having to adjust to differences among them. I bought a S&W 442 and have no regret whatsoever. Good luck with your choice.