I didn't notice a lot of difference, in recoil, between a Colt Pocket Nine, and the MK40. Of course, the Colt is about 8 oz. lighter, which "enhances" recoil.
I've got very big hands, and had no problems with the MK40. The Colt, OTOH, pinched the top of my trigger finger with every shot, adding pain to the unpleasantness of its very long, heavy pull.