gdhillard, I tried to reply to your e-mail but could not, something about your address.
Yes, my 296 is quite a handfull, I had to change my grips to Pachmayers because of the recoil. I usually use the 200gr Blaser(Speer) GDHP loads, and they are quite powerful. I also use the Winchester Silvertips as they are much more comfortable to shoot. I like the piece a lot, it's a snubnose on steriods!
My Kramer MSP paddle holster carries the piece very comfortably and, though I need a coat to cover it, concealment is pretty good for a pistol this size. Up here it gets cold, and though I use a 9mm Sig during the summer, the heavier bullets are a comfort against heavy winter jackets and such. The 296 is my winter carry gun. Hope this helps.