brickeyee said:
If the final finish is gloss (or even semi-gloss) the pores are filled anyway.
A finish that does NOT fill the pores leaves the surface vulnerable to dirt and grime accumulating in the open pores and depressions and making the wood look dirty (at least).
Oh, I
do wish that filling pores were that easy...
There's a reason you can buy "pore fillers"... many of which don't work that well anyway. If you really want to fill the grain of the wood and get a completely smooth surface, you can use plaster of Paris: rub it in well, wipe off when it's almost dry, then sand thoroughly when it's completely dry, so it's only in the grain and not on the surface. Then saturate the surface
thoroughly with linseed oil, which will be absorbed by the plaster and will make it disappear. Apply the oil, let it soak in well, repeat until there aren't dry spots after it's soaked in for a few minutes. Wipe the oil off carefully, let things dry for a week or longer, then sand lightly, stain and finish as you wish.
And as to the dirt-in-the-pores thing, that's why damp rags were invented... dirt won't accumulate if the surface is kept clean.
And if you want an open-pored look, but need to fill dents, you can "fake" pores in the filled areas with a sharp knife or a dental pick and a straightedge. With a bit of practice, this works surprisingly well. You can't do this with shellac stick repairs, because they're too brittle, but it works fine with epoxy putty.