I've been looking at all the threads on .38 snub noses. I want one for carry. (Please I have a auto, I'd like to get a wheelgun) I decided I do want a hammer (may get it bobbed later) BUT the deal is ...What about the weight difference. So many speak well of Rugers SP-101....price is good like getting the .357 so I can shoot both..BUT 25 ounces....a smith centennial at 20 ounces..or a titanium smith or tarus at 11-15 ounces. Will I lose that much control going super light and many talk about nasty recoil.....BUT if I go to the heavier ruger will I get tired of carrying it because of the weight. I have a SIG239 and it often doesn't get carried because of the weight, so I end up with my NAA Guardian 32. I realize many of you carry 1911's and such all the time, BUT weight is a factor for me. Is the 5 to 10 ounce difference enough for me to tell...any suggestions.