I've had an '08 for thirty years, and have never fired it.
I take it out every year for a field strip cleaning, then back in the box.
My hands are large enough that I worked on an oddball grip, holding the gun in my weak hand with the trigger finger around the trigger guard, then essentially gripping my hand with my other hand, squeezing the trigger with my strong-hand finger.
Seems to work better than a conventional two-handed grip.
The '03 and Vest Pocket '08 are mechanically very different.
Even though the former is called "hammerless" it's really a concealed hammer, while the '08 is striker-fired.