Specifically, I think people would just rather see full words, like "you" instead of "u", and ends to sentences with punctuation. Nobody worth their salt here is that pretentious to get down on you for imperfect composition, but taking the time to at least convey your thoughts clearly serves two purposes. First, it's courteous to the people here, who want to spend their time helping you with suggestions and discussion, but do not want to spend time trying to figure out what the question was to begin with. Second, it prevents PETA and the Brady Campaign from labelling us a bunch of uneducated hicks who can't be trusted to be responsible. Hopefully that can tie up the tangent here.
Redirecting this toward the original post...
I shot a doe with a pecker once as well. Last minutes of shooting light and I needed a freezer filler. Thankfully the buttons were small enough to count as antlerless under Wisconsin regs. I still had a buck tag too, but I wanted to hold out. It is embarassing though.
I was 21 when I got into hunting. I've been successful to my own satisfaction. It just takes time. Hang in there. You'll make mistakes, just be sure you learn from them. Locating your quarry is indeed most of the problem. It sounds like you have the right idea seeking food sources, but there's more than that, and your own presence might be a part of the equation as well. Read up on message boards like here, hunting rags, even "real" books. Then grab some topos, when you know what you're looking for, and optimize your woods time by knowing where you're checking before you get there. And make sure you don't just hit the funnels - find the nasty areas full of swamps and brambles. Come deer season, the deer will head for these sanctuaries as public land gets busy with hunters.
Shotgun is a good idea. I definitely think archery would be harder for a learning hunter. It will extend your range and create new options for you. Just make sure you practice and know your limits. If you get a slug barrel with irons, or especially a scope if you've got the money, it will put you in good shape beyond 100 yards.
Best of luck, keep us posted, and feel free to ask more specific questions as they come up.