1911-style firearms are outstanding guns. However, learning to use one properly takes more training than other styles of autopistols, and A LOT more training than a revolver. Remember they are meant to be carried cocked & locked... round in chamber, hammer back, safety on.
The ammo/ reload thing isn't a big issue for me. I carry a .357 revolver, and 1 Bianchi speed strip... 12 rounds total. Many here carry more than that in 1 magazine for their auto, and then carry 1 or 2 extra mags. To my mind any situation where you need that many rounds is time call for close air support. The situations where they could arise are extremely rare, and probably the result of sticking your nose in where it doesn't belong. Remember, you're responsible for where every round you fire downrange at a badguy ends up.
If you're looking for a nightstand gun that you will never carry on your person, buy a 4" .357 (Ruger is my preference, S&W are good too), load it with some mid-range .38sp and have done with it. Shoot it at least 3-4 times per year, say at least 50 rounds each time.
If you're planning on carrying, either learn to use the 1911 properly, or ditch it for a weapon which matches the time you're willing to put in on it. IMO any weapon you carry daily should be shot at least monthly 50-100 rounds... and that's AFTER you've mastered it. A 1911 will take longer to "master" the workings of the gun than a revolver, but both still need to be shot enough that you hit what you're aiming at.