How to talk to "anti's" -- what logic do you use?

Garand Illusion

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This is a long winded post, but I've been thinking about this a lot with all the high profile multiple shootings recently. California, Texas, Atlanta, Wisconsin ...

It's interesting how people react. For those of us who believe in personal self defense it's just another reason why citizens need to be able to defend themselves and be as well armed as the killers. For the anti's, it's another reason to take the guns away. I have a number of antis as friends, and I think I understand them.

People are antis for different reasons. Some have just never been around guns and/or think owning one is a sign of a redneck and someone certainly below them (the liberal genteel types). Some would never consider using deadly force and bet their lives on being passive and letting the police deal with trouble. Others have bought into the false belief that guns in the home are only dangerous to the homeowner and his family.

People who will never own guns are suspicious of those who do. They don't like us having a kind of power they don't. They hate the thought that they might get into a simple argument, have some "red neck" brandish a firearm and then feel powerless. And they don't want to think the world is a place where people HAVE to carry guns to be safe.

Now ... having spent some time in Europe, I understand the concept of a (mostly) gun free society. There's a lot of crime in Europe, but it's mostly non-violent and is considered an agravation more than a threat. So it's quite likely you'll get your pocket picked or your purse snatched, but it's unlikely anyone will stick a gun in your face. And if you end up in the wrong part of town late at night ... well, you're worried about losing your wallet, but you're not concerned about losing your life (these things happen, of course, but rarely).

Whether or not it's better to have a society with or without guns is a subject that intellegent men can differ on.

But the bottom line is ... as a nation we are no where near to have a gun prohibition/take away. And even if we did, it would be years before enough guns were out of bad guys hands before it made a different (being as it would only be law abiding citizens handing them over in the first place).

I think what we need to do with the antis is face their fears and try to get them over to our side.

1. Since guns aren't going away, people need the ability to defend themselves.
How many situations could have been ended by an armed civilian? The Tyler, TX situation was affected by an armed civilian who saved lives. In about any othe situation where the BG didn't have armor he would have ended it right there.

Armed civilians have defended themselves and others in MANY incidents. Even if you're unarmed, if you're living in a CCW state and a nut starts blazing away indiscriminately at a McDonalds, there's at least a chance someone will stop him before he gets to you/your family.​

2. There's nothing magical about LEO's and guns.
Leo's get from 16 - 80 hours of training (highly differential, from what I've seen) but most of that is unrelated to what a private citizen needs to defens himself. The training most CCW programs entail -- coupled with the lifetime of shooting experience most holders have -- is more than sufficient to make them a viable threat to the bad guys AND a force to protect other bystanders.

Having armed and trained civilians on the streets reinforces our civilization and makes streets safer.​

3. Allowing civilians to carry guns is not some kind of radical experiment.
It's been allowed for many years in many states. What makes the people of all of those states civil enough to defend themselves but not the people in CA or NY? Is there something wrong with the people in those states?​

4. People who are already "on the edge" of becoming killers are already carrying guns irregardless of laws.
How many times have you been randomly searched? Couldn't you have been carrying a gun all these years anyway? A CCW law ONLY allows law abiding people to carry; muderers could care less about the minor infraction of carrying illegally.​

5. The Israeli's discovered long ago that having armed civilians increased their security.
That's why they have suicide bombers intstead of mass shootings. While none of us want to be in a constant state of war like Israel ... what makes a people under constant threat of terrorism more secure can also make people under a far lesser threat of assault more secure.​

6. Every state I know of with CCW doesn't allow for brandishing a concealed weapon.
A person who has had a weapon brandished at them for no reason still has full recourse of the law. But in any case ... historically it just doesn't happen. And people who would do such a thing ... well, they're in the group of people who probably carry guns anyway.​

7. Anti's say the notion that an armed citizenry can keep a government from turning into a tyranny (as our founding fathers believed) is quaint, old fashioned, and out of date.
There is an old quote, "he who fails to learn from history is destined to repeat it." Within the 20th century we have seen a number of democracy's turn to agressive tyranny's, the most obvious of which is Nazi Germany.

The jews in the Warsaw Ghetto struggled to fight back with only a handful of pistols they'd managed to steal (all other firearms had been legally seized). Imagine what they could have done if they'd been an average American neighborhood with the kind of firepower that entails! Certainly there would have been many more who would have been able to break free and get away.

I just can't imagine an anti-gun dad saying, "Well my son ... we are being carted off to a death camp ... but AT LEAST there were no school shootings or accidental shootings this year!"​

Some people you just can't convert. But for those that at least try to be logical, you can usually win them over to the CCW side.

I like taking my anti friends to the range whenever I can talk them in to it. I've converted a few to gun owners over the years. I think that's the best way of all.

How do you try to convince anti-gun people that guns aren't the root of all evil? The "because it's the consitution, damnit" thing just doesn't work too well.
 
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The heading of your post tells it all .Your big mistake is to use logic.They work on emotion founded on misinformation.! An example - 6 months after Florida changed their gun laws some years back ,they interviewed many people -pro gun neutral and anti gun. It was very educational.They were asked about the effect of the new laws .The pro gun and neutrals looked at what had actually happened in the last 6 months , there was no problem . The antis however never mentioned what HAD happened but only talked about what MIGHT happen and some of those MIGHT HAPPENs were really far out. Even if you ask about losing their life if they don't defend it they will say that they wouldn't lower themselves to the level of the criminal by using a weapon to defend themselves !!!
 
I gave up on trying to educate antis. 9 times out of 10, their questions are just a prelude to an entrenched argument, and I have better things to do with my time. What I do is invite them to the range to learn about shooting. If they accept, they usually change their views. If they don't, perhaps someday they will.
 
I agree its all emotion. Antis usually come with an agenda sort of like a Chinese menu. Gun control is just one item on their list between free needles for junkies and hot school breakfasts for kids whose mothers are too stoned to get out of bed before noon. :rolleyes:
 
Ask THEM to explain how it is supposed to work. Usually they become so mired in trying to figure out how all the guns just magically disappear that they're ready to hear some alternatives.
 
after a recent home invasion where someone was shot, i was discussing this with a non-gun person i work with. i told him this was just one of the many reasons i always have a weapon within easy reach. he then proceeded to tell me i was going to accidentally shoot my wife! :rolleyes:

i now refrain from these types of discussions with this particular individual, but have invited him to the range on several occasions, which he declined. he has never shot a gun in his life.

i don't need the aggravation, so if someone i am talking to is anti-gun, i just don't talk about guns with them.

Antis can rarely be reasoned with,they are simply too clueless.
i disagree with this, i think it is just a matter of education and lack of experience. most mean well, they just don't know anything different and regurgitate the rhetoric they have been taught.

to many people learn about guns from the tv with no 'hands on' experience
 
Antis can rarely be reasoned with,they are simply too clueless.
Attitudes like this is why we are having such a hard time. I would suggest to you that alot of your fellow citizens, even liberals, are quite a bit less clueless than you are.

".223 is a sissy round", indeed.
 
I don't waste my time trying to convince antis. It's like teaching pigs to sing. The pigs don't like it and will never sing and you'll just get muddy and stinky in the process.

A fence sitter or someone who has never been around guns OTOH is a different matter. They don't have the mental/emotional baggage hardcore antis seem to be carrying and can therefore be reasoned with.
 
I agree its all emotion. Antis usually come with an agenda sort of like a Chinese menu. Gun control is just one item on their list between free needles for junkies and hot school breakfasts for kids whose mothers are too stoned to get out of bed before noon.

I don't waste my time trying to convince antis. It's like teaching pigs to sing. The pigs don't like it and will never sing and you'll just get muddy and stinky in the process.

Actually ... if you're thought processes only go as far as the above, it's probably best you keep your mouth shut. We need logical, intelligent, articulate people arguing our case.

But the case has to be argued.

Let's take a look at history. The democrats pushed gun control as an agenda 10 years back and got a ridiculoulsy lame AWB. The next election they lost the majority, and now the party overall has had to back away from strong anti-gun positions (at least in general -- there are many exceptions from places where it's safe to be radically anti-gun).

The bottom line is ... the AWB sunsetted and things got better for us because liberal leaning people saw the light and voted the other way, and politicians realized that gun owners are an important swing vote that can't be ignored. So ... if you like being able to buy hich capacity magazines again at a reasonable price, thank a liberal, democrat leaning voter who also believes in gun rights. They're the ones who got your rights back and have ultimately expanded on them with state CCW's and the like (many of which have had democrats vote for them).

All of us want the same thing; a safe society to live and raise our kids in. If I truly thought it would make my little girl safer to put the AWB back in place, I'd be arguing for it tomorrow. Think the 2nd amendment would stop that? As defined by the courts it didn't stop it 10 years ago, and hasn't stopped the same bans by cities and states throughout the nation.

So again I say we need to be articulate and informed and take the argument to the anti's. And the image of a fat drunk guy in camos that reveal his hairy gut shouting "From my cold, dead fingers" as he totters on the porch of his rusty trailer waiving an AK-47 does nothing for any of us. The Michael Moore's/Ted Kennedy's of the world have no problem passing laws and then sending out agents to shoot him dead and take his guns away.


after a recent home invasion where someone was shot, i was discussing this with a non-gun person i work with. i told him this was just one of the many reasons i always have a weapon within easy reach. he then proceeded to tell me i was going to accidentally shoot my wife!

When you shut up and let him go on like this, you are tacitly saying you can't counter what he has to say. There are SO MANY ways to do it. Take a look at the arguments above. Understand that he honestly believes you're making your home more dangerous by having a gun in it, and explain to him that you have the training and the experience to own it/defend yourself with it safely and effectively.
 
Garand Illusion,
when someone tries to convice you that your beliefs concering guns are just plain wrong, how does that make you feel? i would venture to guess that the guy on the other end of the argument feels the same way when you tell him that his beliefs concering guns are just plain wrong.

When you shut up and let him go on like this, you are tacitly saying you can't counter what he has to say
no, that is not what i am saying. i am saying that the best we can do is agree to disagree and leave it at that. when the day comes that he decides he would like to make his personal protection a priority, then we can talk.

when it comes to weapons and personal protection, that is a personal choice that can only be made by the individual. i am no more going to try and convince someone that they must have a weapon to protect themselves than i will stand for someone trying to convince me that i shouldn't have a weapon to protect myself.
 
I think some of you give assume too much about the strength of emotion an anti might actually have. If they believe the situation is simple, "guns are bad", then they might not realize that it isn't an obvious conclusion that bans are good.

Most "antis" I've spoken with quickly backed off their position when faced with facts and forced to think logically about it - something no one had afforded them the opportunity to do up to that point.
 
How to talk to anti"s

Nice posts, lots of good advice. Most anti-guns cannot be reasoned with. Most have never owned or fired a gun, they get their misguided facts from organizations that know nothing about firearms, the only part of a newspaper story they read is the opening sentence that says "so and so shot" my $.02 worth.
 
Personally I have never had any success in conversing with a genuine anti.

Lots of ignorant people however may parrot the crap they hear on TV and
movies, and yet they may still be reachable.

They usually wake up when they get mugged by reality.

An anti... WON'T.

EC
 
We need logical, intelligent, articulate people arguing our case.
That is one level. A higher level is logical intelligent people who recognize behavior patterns and know how to bypass argument. Beating someone in a debate is one thing and convincing them so they outgrow their immature beliefs is another.
 
Sorry if my responses were too much like personal attacks -- wasn't trying to attack anybody in particular, just throw my opinion out there against some attitudes in a way to stir up some commentary. Worked pretty good -- there's some good feedback there.

The linked articles were also good. Particularly the second one.

The thing is we have actual facts on our side; the other side just has some gloom-and-doom viewpoints of the human race that they reinforce by images of real gun violence that either don't actually support their case but put people into the right state of mind to blindly accept their conclusion.

Nothing like the image of many children hurt through gun accidents, even though it rarely happens and is ALWAYS avoidable by responsible gun owners.
 
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