+1 for Clays powder.
But I have found with the super fast pistol powders that a heavier bullet with a lighter powder charge gives less felt recoil than a light bullet with more powder, especially with short barrels. You get adequate pressure with a lighter charge and less blast out of that short LCR barrel.
Hodgdon data with Clays:
124 GR. BERB HBRN TP
Hodgdon Clays, 9mm Luger, .356" bullet diameter, 1.150" COAL, starting load 2.7 grains, 791 fps 27,900 PSI.
I have read about people using Clays with 147 gr bullets but the powder charge is so low it's hard to accurately measure and the pressure curve jumps so quick that even a tenth one way or the other will make a noticeable difference in POI and could get overpressure quickly. Too much instability, it just wouldn't be worth it to me.
But Clays has been hard to find lately. I'm down to my last pound and now only use it for .45 acp target loads. Makes my 45's kick like 9mm's and still cycle fine.
Bullseye or Titegroup would also be decent choices for light loads if you can find them easier.