Hey C-Hawk, Here is what I do:
1. Place the barreled action back in the stock and then set the recoil pad on the floor so the muzzle is pointing straight up. (This ensures that the recoil lug is setting properly against the mortise.)
2. Start all the screws into their proper locations, but leave them loose.
3. With the recoil pad still on the floor, go to the screw closest to the muzzle and tighten it. I like this screw "tight", but not Gorilla Armed. Depending on your strength, use only your thumb and first two or three fingers to grip the screwdriver.
4. Go to the screw closest to the recoil pad and screw it in so it is "snug", but not as tight as the front screw. Again, depending on your strength, perhaps you only want to use your thumb and one finger to hold the screwdriver.
5. If your particular rifle has a third screw between the other two, only tighten it enough to keep it from falling out. DO NOT tighten the third screw down, or you will put the action in a bind.
Now, after you shoot the rifle, if it is shooting the way you like it, make some small "Witness Marks" on each screw so the next time you have it apart, you can get them back to these exact same spots. You can either make a tiny scratch on them or use a tiny drop of paint. Some folks get by with a little touch of a Ladies fingernail polish, but it can be pretty fragile stuff.
Some rifles may require a bit of trail-and-error on "how tight" to tighten the front and rear screws. But, do not allow the screwdriver to ride-up in the slot which will bugger up your screws.
Newer Remingtons use Hex Headed bolts. With these, put the "short end" of the L-shaped hex wrench in the bolt on the front screw (closest to the muzzle) and tighten using your thumb and one finger. When you feel the hex wrench begin to flex, it is tight enough.
On the rear bolt, put the "long end" of the hex wrench into the bolt and "snug" down with your thumb and one finger. Do not tighten this one enough to "twist" the long shaft that is in the bolt.
And again, if there is a 3rd screw (or bolt), tighten it just enough to keep it from falling out.
That is what I do and it works just fine.
Good hunting and clean 1-shot kills, Hot Core