CW308,
Ignore the trimming comments. I believe they've misunderstood that you are measuring from head to shoulder datum diameter, and think you are measuring case overall length. It's true that firing can actually shorten case overall length by pulling brass from the neck in order to expand the shoulder, but it shouldn't shorten the measurement you are making.
Federal brass is generally softer than most other, so it is less springy and will spring back less after reaching the shoulder than harder brass does. The ADI may be relatively hard (I don't have any to compare). Normal brass springs back 0.001-0.002 inches from actual headspace size. You can can get that by calibrating your RCBS PM to a precision headspace GO gauge, if you really want to know.
My RCBS PM's are only accurate to about 0.002 inches from absolute. I've put GO gauges into them and I've got one that reads 0.002" high and another that's 0.001 inches high and another that's -0.001 inch low on their respective GO gauges (.30-06, .308, and .223). This is just the tool's precision limit, and without calibrating to a GO gauge it is pretty impossible to say what you actually have.
P.S., if you fire a cartridge at low pressure (about 30,000 psi or less) it will back up rather than stick to the chamber and not stretch. No idea what you are shooting.