I'm glad you figured it out.
As F. Guffey brought up - shell holders are typically fairly consistent. ...But I have found that they do vary.
Lee shell holders, in particular, are inconsistent dimensionally. (According to
my measurements.)
Most important is the term that I use (and rubbed off on F. Guffey): "Deck height". This is the distance from the base of the cartridge to the top of the shell holder.
The standard dimension is 0.125". However, Lee shell holders tend to be on the thick side, if they deviate from that. As such, you can run into problems exactly like what you were experiencing: inability to bump the shoulder.
What you ended up with -- I assume because you figured matching shell holder brand with die brand was a good idea -- is actually exactly what I was going to suggest.
Hornady shell holders are the most consistent shell holders that I've measured.
If I run into shell holder issues, or issues that I believe could be due to a shell holder, I go straight for the good stuff and pull out (or order
) the Hornady version.
For the record, I'm not so obsessive about my tools that I sit in my basement measuring shell holders for no apparent reason. It started out of necessity - trying to figure out why I couldn't set the shoulder back on some .243 Win brass that was fired in one of my rifles.
After I discovered that most of the issue was due to the Lee shell holder that I was using, I measured quite a few more and discovered trends...
For general use, RCBS, Redding, Lyman, Wilson, and the other common brands are decent enough.
When I really care, I grab Hornady.
I avoid Lee most of the time, now.