Hello to all in the revolver forum. I'm mostly a semi-auto guy (Please don't stop reading die hard revolver gurus!!), but I've been eying a revolver as a good home defense gun. I've decided on a .357 mag although I plan on using .38 +p for defense purposes. I would like this gun to be accessible for my significant other to use as well. She wants to learn to shoot, but doesn't want her own gun. I'm choosing a revolver because it's simpler to learn, and if a round should be a dud, all she has to do is pull the trigger again. I plan on teaching her thoroughly and going to practice w/ her on a regular basis until she is comfortable and has shown her proficiency. The Gun I'm looking at is a Ruger GP 100 3" model. It seems to have most of the characteristics I'm looking for and appears to have a good weight and size ratio for her hand and for recoil absorbtion. Does anyone have any experience w/ this gun or are there other suggestions that may be better? After I move out of this state, I may use this gun for carry, so future carry considerations are also part of the determining factor. If this Gun is to big, I may move to it's smaller brother, the SP 101 3". Thanks in advance for suggestions and advice.