Rats
Well. I had something of a saga, getting the cylinder off, since the hubster or one of my sons had run off with and lost my screwdriver set
I didn't find that one kind of penetrant that Jim had mentioned, but Carter's did have Birchwood Casey Gun Scrubber. Once I made my side trip to Home Depot for a new set of screwdrivers (WHICH NONE OF THE MALES OF MY HOUSE WILL EVER KNOW HOW TO FIND EVER AGAIN!!!!) I got the cylinder and the crane out with no difficulty. There was some gunk, yes but nothing remarkable. I used the aerosol straw that creates a high pressure wash to thoroughly clean out the seating for the crane, and of course cleaned the crane itself. For good measure, I 'scrubbed' out the trigger/hammer mechanism although I did not disassemble the entire revolver.
Got some gunk out, certainly, although no visible bits of anything. Got everything dried out, cleaned up, and well lubed. The gun is back together. It helped a very little bit, but the DA trigger action is still atrocious, and pulling the hammer back, while a little better, is still way too difficult, and is definitely more difficult than it should be.
So. I can either go ahead and disassemble the revolver (a job I would approach with great reluctance) or find a gunsmith or send it back to S&W. Or trade it for a .357, LOL....
I'll have to think about the next step. It's probably too late in the day to get ahold of S&W, so this will at least wait until tomorrow.
EDIT: I did get in touch with Smith & Wesson. They said to ship it back to them and let them take a look. Sounds like good advice.
Thanks to all who went out of your way to be helpful and help me make sure it was something I couldn't fix myself. Y'all are the bomb.
Springmom