New modern guns are chambered with little to no throat , just about where the chamber ends the rifled barrel begins. This part is sized for .355 bullets, your bullets are .357, I have this mould and that's what they drop out at. The lead bullet needs to be seated deeper in the case . I make up a dummy, no primer no powder and seat the bullet then try in gun...if it doesn't chamber , seat deeper and try again...once the round will chamber and extract easily you have discovered the seating depth for your gun.....I don't care what the book says the OAL should be...if the round wont chamber...that dimension is wrong...seat the bullet deeper until it passes the test.
Keep the dummy round to adjust seating depth next time.
I just finished doing the seating adjustment song and dance with this bullet and 4 different 9 mm pistols, but eventually got one load that fed in them all . I size my cast bullets to .357...be sure and flare the case mouth.
Gary