I'm a LEO, and I've only been 'made' once, and it was by a friend.
Well, reconsidering, I've probably been made many times when I walk in a substation in plainclothes, but 1. I don't think that counts and 2. cops tend to be curious about how other cops carry, so they're extra observant about their plainclothed brethren.
Anyways, my normal mode of dress prior to being a cop was jeans/chinos/khakis with a t-shirt and unbuttoned long or short sleeve shirt over top. My mode of dress has not changed except to maintain this same style even in rather hot conditions. I carry a P232 either IWB (strongside) or belt slide (also strongside). Yes, it will print a little, but as has already been said, 99% of the people don't see an odd bump and think "gun!"...and the other 1% are mostly cops or fellow CCWers. Sure, some BGs are included in this bunch, but I hope/pray that situational awareness helps offset this. The other options all seem to be ugly as far as ability to get the weapon into action fast. Others may disagree, and to tell you the truth I'm no old hand, so I may be wrong.
Anyway, I stop by this party to pick up my wife. I go inside and do the obligatory mingling prior to our departure, and one of our friends notes my t-shirt, which has a logo of one of our local sports pro-sports franchises. He comments on this and, without asking, pulls aside my outer shirt to get a good look at the t-shirt design. he spots the Sig-Sauer and his jaw drops.
"Why do you have a gun??" he asks, and fortunately no one else overhears.
I laugh. "I'm a cop, remember?"
"You carry your gun off-duty?" he asks, still amazed.
I nod. "Not my regular gun; its too big. But I carry a gun all the time."
"Oh," he says. After a brief pause he asks "Why?"
Not wanting to get involved in a general CCW discussion (a position I 100% support) at this time, I simply say, "We're required to by department regs. If you're within our jurisdiction, you gotta be packing." Which is true.
"Wow. I never thought of that."
Note, this guy is probably a little sheltered and left-leaning on such issues, but he's no idiot. I imagine his reaction is typical of anyone 'making' a cop off-duty...I'll bet the reaction of most people is stronger to 'making' a non-cop. Since we have a very silly gun debate brewing in this nation, if you are ever made, I strongly encourage everyone to take the time to explain to the person who made you 1. why you carry and 2. that it is legal and kosher and 3. that millions of people do it every day. I didn't do that on-the-spot with him, but I did do it later.
Another point, gun etiquette. I'm not sure what the prevaling opinion is here, but I consider it rude to carry a concealed weapon into another's home. I would be mildly peeved if a friend did it to me without telling me...not that I don't trust him (I trust my friends, or I don't call 'em friends), its just a matter of common courtesy. You don't just walk into his house, you knock. You don't just carry your gun into his house, you make him aware of it and ask his permission- or don't take it. In this particular instance, I was caught not doing this (by the host!), and I felt it necessary to tender an apology later, along with an explaination (that I was intending to just pick up my better half, not stay and mingle).
And no, I don't consider this twenty-first century PC drivel, I consider it very old-fashioned courtesy. But that is also a tangent, so feel free to not comment. *shrug*
My thoughts.
Mike
PS one other time, on duty, a fireman noted my .357 in its ankle holster. He announced in a loud voice, for the entire ER staff to hear, "Hey Occifer...yer thingy's sticking out!"
And they wonder why we hate them so.
PPS this is the same fireman who, when pulled over, leaned out the window to the cop and asked "Hey, sir...yer not gonna look in the trunk, are yah?"
Hoseheads and Nozzle Nuts.
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