So I think the guys who have never seen one just aren't getting out into that larger volume shooting environment.
Having and seeing a slamfire sure changes one's attitude towards the whole thing. I attended a regional recently and talked to a 78 year old Marine (once a Marine always a Marine!) and he shot Garands at Camp Perry during late 1950's through the transition to the M14. He never had or saw a slamfire. But understand, shooters were issued ball ammunition or NM ammunition. The Army made its own ammunition, it understood both the characteristics of the weapon and the ammunition.
There was also a certain liability associated with accidents. I don't know when the no liability period ended, but I am aware in the 1920's, costs for rehabilitation of Service members was paid for by an Agency outside the Services. So, blowing up Army, Navy, Marine service men, with single heat treat Springfields, for example, cost the services the use of a rifle and the price of patching up the injured and sending them off to the other Government Agency. So, giving Service members dangerous equipment did not expose Military Agencies to any long term costs or obligations. That must have ended, and the services became aware that injuries and long term care was expensive. So during the Garand period, the Army had a real monetary reason to produce the safest ammunition possible. I am sure the Army scrapped lots of primers that were too sensitive. Someone got yelled at for certain, but sensitive primers would have been rare.
Then came commercial primers and civilians. Ammunition companies have zero liability if a civilian blows himself or his rifle up with their primers. The number of slamfire incidents with commercial primers exceeds by an order of magnitude reports of slamfires with military ammunition.
As for primers not to use, I don't recommend Federals. They are too sensitive, though many shooters loved them because they could buy a box of primers with the name "Match" beside the name Federal. Names sell primers and people think match primers are better, even though we don't know how much better they are over those nasty "standard" primers. Since standard primers shoot very well, I doubt there is much of a significant difference between "Match" and "standard".
For Garands, M1a's, I recommend using the mil spec primers as that is the primer type the military used.