I think there's too many variables to assign a specific ratio, and the optimal balance would need to be determined empirically. Nonetheless, a lot of people have messed with spring weights & hammers, and can give you some guidance. You'll get some of the best info there is on this subject on the
revolver subforum of the Brian Enos forum. Those guys
really know their way around a tuned revolver.
As for my guns, I have a 686 with a radically bobbed hammer. The action's been tuned to a 7.5 lb DA trigger pull, and it shoots everything I've put in it.
I have a 625 with a similarly bobbed hammer, and I've taken the action to about 6 lbs, at which, it's pretty close to it's limit, even with Federal primers.
I also have a 66 in which I've installed an
Apex hammer and tuned the action to about 6 lbs. I get occasional misfires (with Federal primers), so one of these days I'll stiffen it up a bit.
Guys like Randy Lee can get the DA down to 5 lbs and still be reliable with Federal primers, but it takes a lot more than simple polishing of the internals, bobbing the hammer and swapping springs.
My 686:
My 625: