I use paper towels for patches, with a little Hoppes for pistols. Takes a while to know how much to use so you don't tear it. They work fine.
I use the brass brush only occasionally.
For lube, I use FP10 or Mobile1 15W- 50 synthetic. Sometimes I mix the two. I'll also use TW25 grease alone, or mixed with a little FP10 and use that on the rails. For the bbl., I just use the FP10 or Mobile1.
At the range I use a bore snake, IF I shoot the gun I'm carrying, to clean off the chamber and feed ramp. I also wipe of the breech face and brush the extractor-- then clean it properly when I get home.
To clean out the action of, say, a SIG, I pour some Hoppes solvent in there, let it sit, and flush it out with GunScrubber, then dry with canned air I buy at Costco by the case. Then I like to apply a little FP10, or sometimes or maybe even even some MilTech. I leave the actiion on 1911's dry.
I stay away from RemOil because it's so thin, and acts more like a solvent than a lube, and it tends to disappear when in storage.
For rifles, I have the regular solvent, the copper dissolving solvent, the alcohol, proper patches and brushes. After using, say, Sweets, I run a dry patch, then one soaked in alcohol, a dry patch, then regular solvent, and dry patches.
The alchohol is so I'm not mixing different solvents--especially the ammonia based with regular. Simple techniques shown to me by a rifle builder and bench rest shooter. Overly cautious? I don't know, maybe he was just superstitious.
I also learned that Shooters Choice is nothing more than Gen. Motors Top Engine Cleaner. Wished I'd bought more before they dis-continued it, since it was about 1/3 the price.