Fud,
I recommend Ruger's GP100 series. GP100s are very solid, durable and reliable revolvers, with great accuracy, and they are inexpensive. There are at least a dozen GP100 variants (check Ruger's catalog or Internet site); I have a KGP141 (four-inch barrel), which maybe slight bigger than you want. However, all the GP100s share the same accuracy, quality and ruggedness.
As you're aware, the GP100 is a .357 mag revolver, but (obviously) it also accommodates .38 Special, +P, and +P+; this, too, is a significant advantage since the wide variety of loads provides real flexibility.
Best regards.
[This message has been edited by RWK (edited September 07, 2000).]