A someone with a PhD in a Humanities discipline and who wrote a dissertation with a historical approach, I suggest you do not worry too much about what history has been "revised" or not. Historians are people too who have a point of view just as everyone else does. Also, history writing has fads and trends that come and go as well. You have to sort through it all and find what suits you.
So, if you are reading a history book that offends you, drop it, walk away, and go find something else since there are plenty of different perspectives (conservative, liberal, and radical) around for your pleasure and edification.
However, instead of only relying upon an anthology or collection of treatments on American history, supplement your knowledge by reading some of the original writings that compose the historical record. A good book for this task is _100 Key Documents in American Democracy_, edited by Peter B. Levy (Westport, Conn. : Greenwood Press, 1994).
BTW, women and minorities have made significant contributions to U.S. history and are a part of the American social and political landscape. Any history book that blatantly ignores them is a waste of time.
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