The .38 ACP/Super is supported ("headspaced") on its semi-rim. 9mm Parabellum can sometimes work in a .38 ACP/Super or 9mm Largo chamber because the 9mm P is tapered and will wedge itself into the chamber, but it depends on the tolerances of that brand or even lot of ammo. It cannot be depended on.
As to .380 ACP (9mm Kurz) in a 9mm P chamber, the .380 will usually be pushed too far into the chamber for the firing pin to reach the primer. Depending on the gun design, though, the .380 might be caught by the extractor and held enough to fire. Again, though, it is not something that can be depended on, and even if the .380 fires, it will probably not function a pistol chambered for the 9mm P.
Jim