The real difference between die sets is the warrantee. RCBS(and Dillon) backs their stuff 100%, forever. Even if you buy a used set of RCBS dies or you cause the damage, you're covered. Lee(and most other brands), for example, only covers you for stuff they did in their factory, not forever(usually just a year or maybe 2) and not for stuff you buy used at all. Certainly not if you caused it.
You do not absolutely need to use small base dies for auto loading rifles. FL dies will do for most of 'em. Some AR's need SB dies because of tight chambers though. An SB die sizes a few thou smaller. Usually about 5 thou more than a regular FL die. Nothing more.
Bench rest dies are primarily intended to separate you from your money. Bench rest shooters are a very, um, obsessive bunch and usually do not FL or sometimes resize, at all. Some of 'em load the case and bullet into their rifles separately too. So 'bench rest sets' are mostly about marketing.