Debate
To the OP....a proper debate begins with a clear statement...called a resolution. Once stated, the participants either agree with the resolution or disagree with it.
A possible resolution derived from your statement is
"Resolved: The Springfield EMP is unsuitable for small hands."
There are, of course, other possibilities.
The resolution must be stated in such a way that it can be debated---people can agree or disagree with it. Your original statement was about your experience with the gun. Stated the way it was, a person could not disagree with it. It was too much for your girly hands. No one could properly say "no, it wasn't."
Pete