DS---
Congrats on your excellent little revolver. The Diamondback is the same frame size and action as the Police Positive and Detective Special, with the addition of a heavier barrel. Therefore, it should stand up to any loads you'd use in either of those. If you want to load it up for home defense or even limited carry, I'd put in the 158 gr. LSWCHP +P from Remington or Winchester. It is perhaps the best of the .38 Special loads, is accurate, and not unduly hard on the equipment or the shooter.
I'm really more concerned with keeping the finish nice. Heed Richard's advice about leaving ANY solvent on the surface. They WILL lift the nickle right off the steel if left on for too long. It is better to leave the pistol dirty than to improperly clean it. It is not usually necessary to scrub the barrel with bronze brushes to get it clean. And NEVER use stainless steel brushes. Tight fitting patches with Hoppes should do the job, then swab it dry and leave a LIGHT film of something like RemOil or Breakfree on it.
Gentle loads for practice: Standard velocity 158 gr. lead, or the 148 gr target wadcutters. These are mild and accurate. Another load which will not discolor front of the cylinder so badly is the 130 gr. FMJ--Remington does it with a RN flat point, and Winchester-USA sells it with the FMJ RN, just like the old military load. And, even if you do use the jacketed bullets, do NOT use copper solvent on a nickle platted gun--The steel is usually first plated with copper and then with nickle, so the copper solvent will get thru any scratch in the rather soft nickle and attack the copper beneath.
Really, that is such a nice little revolver, you might want to use something else for either conceraled carry on your person or as a car gun.
Best regards,
RR
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