Mendozer,
COL is about either accuracy or smooth function. Sometimes the two are mutually exclusive, as when a VLD bullet's long, pointy nose sticks out so far that when you find the best length for best accuracy with it, the finished round no longer fits in the magazine. Below is an illustration showing two different bullet designs both seated the same distance from the lands, but you can see how different the COL's are. Below that is an illustration of bullet and case terminology, just to be sure we are on the same page.
That COL variation with bullet design happens because the part of the bullet that touches the lands is the ogive immediately in front of the shoulder, and not the bullet tip. The location of the tip of the nose is only an indirect measure of bullet jump, and is not very precise. It's only intended to get you into the ballpark.
I once measured a set of 15 Sierra 150 grain MatchKing bullets and found up to 0.014" of spread in their length from base to nose, but only about 0.008" spread in the length from the base to the ogive just in front of the shoulder. More importantly, the two didn't always correspond, so the spread of difference from the meplat to the ogive at the shoulder was about 0.020". This is probably because a die that forms the ogive a little further down, also flows the meplat a little further up, assuming identical length of the cups.
That you find this variation happens because everything is made on multiple sets of tooling on different machines, then combined afterward. 100% exact duplication is not possible to achieve that way. Importantly, though, is that it has proven unnecessary as Sierra's test guns can shoot these same bullets into bugholes. What it does mean, though, is that if you are working from COL alone, ±0.010" in jump to the lands can occur even when the COL's are identical. However, most seating dies seat bullets by pushing on part of their ogives rather than the noses, so the variation you actually get with the bullet is about half what seating to exact COL would produce.
The above tells you a couple of things of interest. One is that people who think they are seating their bullets 0.005" off the lands are probably contacting the lands some of the time and have a jump of twice that number some other part of the time. Then you have the problem that no bullet headspaces on the breech end of the case head. The thing that stops the cartridge going further into the chamber (the thing it headspaces on) is either the bore side of a rim, or of a belt, or the case shoulder, or the case mouth, or the bullet itself, if it touches down in the throat first. If you have some jump amount you are trying to control, it makes sense to measure the distance from the ogive to the headspacing surface for consistent location of the bullet in the throat, not to the breech end of the case.
For bottleneck cartridges that headspace on their shoulders, you can do that by measuring the ogive position from the breech end of the head with a bullet comparator insert, and then measure the distance from the head to the shoulder with a case comparator insert, subtracting the latter from the former gets you a number you ideally want to keep consistent.
It's all a good deal of bother, and really is more of interest to experimenters than the average shooter. Once you accept that most ammo has some variation in exact bullet jump, you can relax with the realization that a lot of pretty accurate ammo is produced that way.
Regarding your earlier question about limits for COL and the recommended trim length, the SAAMI standard does have such things for all the standardized chamberings. The best way to learn them for your cartridge is to look at
its SAAMI drawing. For .30-06, the SAAMI standard case length is 2.494"-0.020". That means anything from 2.474" to 2.494" is acceptable. Most manufacturers aim for the midpoint as the trim-to length so that any variation they have is still likely to be above the lower limit and below the upper limit. The military spec for the cartridge case length is 2.494"-0.015", so they make them from 2.479"-2.494", targeting the middle value of 2.4865" for trim length.
As to COL the SAAMI maximum is 3.340", with a minimum of 2.940". The big range is required because of the large variety of bullet nose shapes and weights available to shoot in this chambering. The military is less flexible because of the need for reliability in full auto weapons. If gives a separate tolerance for each load, but for .30-06 M2 Ball it is 3.340"-0.040", so 3.300" to 3.340". That part of military information isn't usually useful for the average handloader.
The bottom line is that no COL tolerance is so narrow that your existing caliper can't keep you within it, as long as you aim for the middle of the range. Your caliper is not quite good enough for military case length tolerance, but gets in under the wire for the SAAMI standard for .30-06.
By the way, Amazon has a caliper
listed for $13 with 0.001" accuracy and 0.0005" resolution. It's Chinese and not up to a high quality American, Japanese, or Swiss tool as far as feel and rigidity, and those high quality ones are easier to pre-set to a specific width to use as a check gauge. But at least inexpensive rougher feeling calipers won't put you out by 0.008". You shouldn't have to live with that.