You go to a convenience store in New York (and mind you, this was a decade ago) and you have to pre-pay. You don't look the guy behind the counter in the eyes and if you say anything beyond "gimme my change (insert expletive here)" he looks at you from behind his lexan fortress like you're about to rob the place.
and the rest of NY City where most people live in ghettoes of one ethnic group or another and exist like rats in holes.
Nice place to visit, crappy place to live.
You guys are so off the mark it's amazing!!!
I can only assume you all spent the entire time either in Manhattan, the Bronx or Brooklyn.
Somehow, I doubt you got out of Manhattan.
Unless maybe you found cheaper lodging in Queen's.
NY is NOT just Manhattan.
It's a VERY tough town to say the least.
And if you come from a slow paced rural area, not only will it overwhelm you, but you'll no doubt LOOK like you're uncomfortable, making yourself an obvious target for trouble makers.
There are crowds, dirt, rudeness, etc, etc, etc.
But it has some of the most beautiful coastline you'll ever see.
The upstate scenery is outstanding.
Some of the finest Striped Bass fishing can be had in Long Island Sound.
Have any of you even been to Long Island?
The nightlife, restaurants and cultural offerings are next to none anywhere in the world.
Unfortunately, most people only go for a frew days and concentrate all of their time in Manhattan for shows and whatnot.
And if you don't have someone to help you out, you'll never experience the "other" NY.
I lived there for 48yrs.
At one time or another, I frequented every little nook and cranny available.
From posh Manhattan clubs/restaurants and drug infested areas of the South Bronx to cabins in the Adirondack/Catskill Mtns with breathtaking views and fantastic fishing.
If you think NY is a cess pool, you don't know NY.