Scott Evans
Staff Alumnus
“Hay Dad do you have your GUN ! “ or “Mom where’s your pistol ? “ are things that your young children are likely to blurt out at the worst possible moment if you are one who carries concealed. That is unless you plan for it and address the possibility ahead of time. I have 4 little ones by-the-way ages 1, 3, 8 and 11. Some things that I have observed that help.
The more consistent you are in having your weapon with you at all times the less likely it will remain a big deal to your children. However, occasionally children will perceive a potential threat and take great comfort in knowing that Dad or Mom is ready, ABLE and willing to deal with it. At such times they are likely to ask even if they already know you have it.
2nd: Teach them to call your weapon something other then “Dad’s GUN” or “Mom’s pistol”. Give it a name. A friend of mine, who has seven children, and is a real Southern Gentleman, has always had his kids refer to his carry piece as “Momma dog”. Another friend has taught his kids to refer to his carry piece as his “Wallet”. So if they are out and abut and have to ask they can say something like “Mom do you have your wallet today?” Of course this takes repeated practice and explanation in the home.
Any other suggestions … ? If you have or have had children what do you do?
The more consistent you are in having your weapon with you at all times the less likely it will remain a big deal to your children. However, occasionally children will perceive a potential threat and take great comfort in knowing that Dad or Mom is ready, ABLE and willing to deal with it. At such times they are likely to ask even if they already know you have it.
2nd: Teach them to call your weapon something other then “Dad’s GUN” or “Mom’s pistol”. Give it a name. A friend of mine, who has seven children, and is a real Southern Gentleman, has always had his kids refer to his carry piece as “Momma dog”. Another friend has taught his kids to refer to his carry piece as his “Wallet”. So if they are out and abut and have to ask they can say something like “Mom do you have your wallet today?” Of course this takes repeated practice and explanation in the home.
Any other suggestions … ? If you have or have had children what do you do?