It is certainly possible to wear out a carbide die, mostly from the grit on the case from hitting the ground, burned powder and the like. The grit can act like a coarse lapping compound and scratch up your dies.
I tumble my brass for a bit before resizing, and I am going on over 20 years with the Lee 4 die set I began loading 45ACP with. No sticking or excessive force needed. If I didn't have a brass tumbler, I would use hot soapy water and rinse it off, and completely dry the cases.
I also clean my dies with some gun solvent and brushes from time to time-that goes for all of the dies. The seating die gets bullet lube from cast bullets built up from time to time, and the powder through expander die can get gunk in it too.