a couple of my friends have told me that the bolt and bolt carrier are crap and jam after every 20 or so rounds.
Well, you could have probably bought a rifle with a better bolt and bolt carrier at a similar price; but a typical Bushmaster bolt carrier group isn't going to jam every 20 rounds or so. The last one I owned was still going strong at 9,988 rounds when it got lost by a gunsmith working on the gun.
The major differences between a Bushmaster bolt and a Colt bolt are:
1. Bushmaster does not proof test and magnetic particle inspect bolts.
2. Bushmaster bolts have the older blue insert and M16-style extractor spring rather than the enhanced M4 insert and M4-extractor spring (this is a $6 fix)
3.. At one time, Bushmaster used a different method of attaching the gas key on the carrier. This method worked well as long as the machine was set correctly; but as tooling would wear down, it wouldn't secure the gas key well. Around 2005 or so, somebody at Bushmaster failed to set up the machine properly and they released hundreds of rifles with loose gas keys, giving them a big hit on reputation for awhile. The most recent Bushmasters I've seen were staked using the same procedures the military recommends, so this may no longer be an issue.
If you are concerned about it, all you need to do is make sure your gas key is properly staked and upgrade the extractor spring for $6. Then I would just shoot the rifle until it is time to replace the bolt - which even with a fairly demanding firing schedule should be good for 6,000 rounds or more.