45automan---
If your screen name means anything, you've fired pistols more action-filled. When you shoot a .45 ACP, lots of things happen, right? Fairly sharp noise, slide slams back and forth, empty brass flies off to the side or overhead.
I suggest you get a box of .44 Special loads. In this heavy revolver, it is less than shooting 185 SWC .45 auto target loads. Really, the 246 gr LRN Special load is somewhat less powerful than a .45 ACP hardball load. The 200 gr JHP .44 Spec loads feel about the same but perhaps a little louder.
With full magnum loads in the Super Blackhawk, there is a somewhat sharper, louder report. If you're holding it properly, the barrel raises up in recoil and the stocks slide down in your hand. Holding onto it properly--Very firmly. NOT so tightly as to set up a tremor. If things begin trembling, you're holding too tightly. The tales of the .44 mag actually drawing blood have to do with new, coarsely checked stocks with the saw-handle shape of the S & W Model 29. With smooth wood, the big SA .44s are a joy to shoot. As said before, it rocks back in your hand, with the barrel pointing upward. This expedites re-cocking.
You are truly shooting a major caliber firearm, but not as traumatic as full .357 mag 158 JHP in a K or L frame S&W, or a Colt Python. Don't let it spook you, friend. The main problems with .44 mag revolvers have to do with them being large and heavy, and when people try to wring out every foot-per-second velocity, with the heavy bullets.
If you hand load, you can go with heavier-than-Special loads but still real magnum loads. A 240 gr JHP with 10 grains of Unique gives about 1125 fps. 17.5 gr of 2400 gives same bullet around 1230. Hottest I've ever gone is 240 JHP with 22 gr of H110, showing 1362 in the Speed #12 manual. This is still two full grains under maximum.
The .44 mag is a wonderfully versatile cartridge, and the Ruger Super Blackhawk is strong and accurate. Give the smooth wood stocks a chance before you try oversize rubber handles. These have a tacky texture and do not allow the change in recoil vector that tames the "kick." Take it out and shoot it, and have a great time. Hope you enjoy your .44 as much as I have several over the years. Best regards,
RR
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