I have been thinking of getting a single shot revolver with a birdshead grip because I like the look. I am thinking of using this as a ccw. Right now I use a 1911. My question is that I have big hands, are the birdshead grip large enough to accomodate three fingers with the index finger in trigger? Second question I was thinking of getting it in 357 mag but would consider a 45 colt if the recoil is more manageable than a 357 mag? Thanks for reading my post.