I've carried Federal or Winchester 125 grain JHPS for many years but switched to heavier bullets. The 125-grain loadings seem to be more controllable for rapid DA work. If you're in a rural area where you might encounter injured or dangerous animals, the 158-grain bullets could prove to be the best choice. The 125-grainers don't seem to penetrate as well. I've had trouble putting down larger animals: deer, cattle and a well-muscled-up pit bull. The 140-grain bullets and the 145-grain Winchester Silvertip are good compromises. I was using Silvertips when I last carried a .357 in law enforcement--switched after the pit bull decided to not die right away.
Those Hornady TAP loads look interesting. I might try those out.