Longer barrels also have more leverage against your wrist. While what you say is traditional wisdom, I have found the opposite to be true.The longer tubes will give better recoil control due to increased weight.
Well, Kcub;
If you don't have as a minimum a 4", 6" or 6.5" and an 8" or 8 3/8" you don't have all the 44mags you NEED. Then you can decide.
One is NOT enough!