Short answer, Scyman? Forget about the stores and hit the show.
If anybody is a LEO, check out Trooper's Supply. Some friends of mine with HPD are always bragging about the prices there, and they're always right. If you're not a LEO, they won't talk to you. Period.
Ah, well, I guess on what we pay HPD, we can't begrudge them a cheap source of toys all to themselves.
Everybody is right about Collector's. It reminds me of a few women I've known over the years: Pretty, but expensive. besides, there's something wrong with a gun store that won't deal with reloading.
Carter's gets as much of my business as I can afford because they're usually great people. My only problems are with their range and all that <expletive deleted> brass all over the <expletive deleted> place which is a handloader's nightmare. Not so bad with a bolt or a wheelgun, though.
Bailey's on the south side of town has its moments, both good and bad. If they'd stop interpreting a request for an RCBS item as a request to be talked into a Hornady equivalent, I'd feel much friendlier about them, but they do have some nice deals, and the range is okay. Never looked at their guns, sadly.
American Shooting centers is a nice place to shoot, but that wind reminds me of Amarillo.
I'll have to follow up the C & C and Bachman's advice.
Steve