Hardness for 9mm is a moot point. Size it what keeps the lead from building up for the most part. Some powder choices can lead to more lead build up with bullets that do fit. Hi Skor 800x, and Blue Dot are two I can think off the top of my head that have done so with other calibers that I reload for. Titegroup caused the same issue for me with cast lead in .45 auto, and .44 special. I have not tried it in 9mm, and I am using Win231 with good results so I am going to stick with what is working.
If you can slug the bore. You get to know what the grove diameter is which will help greatly. If in doubt use a 125 grain .38 special bullet. See if it will chamber. Work up your load from the starting load to keep from going over on pressure.