Hello,
I just joined this forum recently and came accross your thread. I do shoot an M9 as well as a 1911. From the sound of your question, it seems like you are using a fairly stock M9/92. From what I know about the M9 is that is is pretty difficult to get one to perform. The one I use is custom built by MCP. The first issue you run into is the stock Beretta barrel's rate of twist. The best results are had with the KKM 1:32 barrels. Long term, the gun should be built with some sort of rail system so the steel slide rides on steel and not the stock aluminum frame. The trigger can be made to break nicely but that's probably the easiest part for a gunsmith to do. I believe the recoil spring is probably different but I wasn't the original owner that had my gun built so had no input at that time.
With mine, I load a Zero 115 gr bullet with 5.0 Vhitavouri N330. I never ransom rested it, but I shot back to back 94 and 90 slow fires (50 yd) during my first trial with it. I deemed that to be sufficient. I bought the gun with some Atlanta Arms Match Ammo. My loads perform better in my gun so that is what I use. Until now, you were restricted to 115 or 124 gr. CMP just announced they are changing some of the rules for this year. The ammunition no longer needs to mimic military ball. They also opened it up to other pistol types that are duty type weapons. You also get a couple more chances per year to shoot matches.
For me, I kind of like the older equipment rules so I will likely still shoot those guns and ammo for the foreseeable future.
When I switched to the M9, I had hoped to gain some points at the short line. Ironically, I did better at 50 yds but lost points at 25. Go figure. I currently shoot either one 260-270. I got my first 20 points with the 1911 and my last 12 with the M9. I just legged out in June of 2014 so it's all for fun from here on out.
Good luck to you. You will be very proud of yourself when you get that medal. I know I was..
John