Another 'Bad" Drawing Draws Suspension

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From the Medford Oregon Mail Tribune:

EAGLE POINT — A first-grader was suspended Tuesday for drawing a stick figure shooting another in the head with a gun and allegedly threatening students.

Little Butte School officials sent 6-year-old Ryan Weathers home after receiving complaints from parents saying he threatened their children, said Douglas Weathers, the boy's father.

"He's not a violent kid," Weathers said. "He did not mean any harm."

School district officials declined to comment. State law bars them from discussing disciplinary actions against specific students.

The disciplinary report given to Weathers stated the reason for the suspension was the boy "threatened to shoot two girls in the head."

The drawing was inspired by an episode of "The Simpsons," Weathers said. In the television cartoon, a character displays a drawing of a student being shot by a gun.

Weathers said he understands the concerns other parents may have, but felt the school went too far in suspending his son for one day.

"You can't blame the parents," he said. "I told the principal that I agreed that he shouldn't have done the drawing, but suspending him seems like a policy with no intelligence behind it.

"They didn't seem to care that he's only in the first grade."

Tina Mondale, the district's school improvement director, said the issue is between the school and the parents involved.

"We can't give these details out," she said. "We deal with every discipline issue in a case-by-case basis. Our main concern is the safety of all the children in our schools."

Weathers plans to hold Ryan out of school until early next week. He wants a chance to talk to school officials before he lets his son attend class.

"I don't like him being out of school," Weathers said. "I'm not sure how this is going to affect how my kid is perceived. They may view him as a violent kid or a terrorist, or whatever."

The biggest issue Weathers had with the incident was that his son tried to blame the drawing on another kid.

"Lying is a big problem for me," Weathers said. "No matter what happens I tell him to tell the truth. I told him he was wrong for trying to lie."

Weathers said he owns a handgun, but he keeps it in a safe in a storage facility.

"I do own a .357, but my son's never even seen it," he said.

Weathers said he is looking forward to discussing the matter with Ryan's teacher during a conference Friday.

Until then, the boy's future at Little Butte School is up in the air.

"I don't know if I'm going to bring him back to that school," Weathers said.
 
Weathers said he understands the concerns other parents may have, but felt the school went too far in suspending his son for one day.
I disagree
If he did in fact threaten to shoot two girls in the head then a one day suspension is appropriate
It also would suggest that the title of the thread is very misleading
 
I disagree
If he did in fact threaten to shoot two girls in the head then a one day suspension is appropriate
It also would suggest that the title of the thread is very misleading

Pretty much how I see it. He A) made the drawing, B) allegedly threatened other kids, and C) lied about it.

Now, I'm wondering how they know he lied about it if it's still in the "allegedly" column...having an elementary teacher for a wife, my guess is that he ended up admitting to it. They tend to do that.

Personally only (A) of the above isn't itself worthy of a one-day suspension...but in combination with the other two? I'd have to see some pretty interesting details to think this was unreasonable.

Plus I don't care if he's only in first grade. Elementary school kids do some pretty crazy things. My wife had a second grader literally try and tackle her from behind and punch her repeatedly in the face. Might not seem scary, until you realize the kind of liability she faces if she hurts him, even in self defense. Kids have said they were going to "cut off somebody's head," then been found with sizeable knives on them, in elementary school.

What, we're supposed to assume that a first-grader simply couldn't manage to hold a gun? Or that even without one, he wouldn't try to seriously hurt somebody? Oh, and we're not supposed to instill in them the idea that this kind of crap doesn't fly when they're young, before they get big enough to easily hurt other people?

"Weathers said he owns a handgun, but he keeps it in a safe in a storage facility."

That does him a lot of good.

Seriously, what's the point? At that point, you don't even have it if you need it for the zombie apocalypse, let alone normal self defense. Why even own a handgun at this point? Does it just make you feel fuzzy at night?
 
Too few first hand facts here. As for the dad owning a sidearm to protect the home, I don't think that should have made it into the article, but something tells me the reporter got that out of him with a little manuevering.
 
I tend to let a lot of crap that kids do slide, but threats to my kids from other kids get dealt with swiftly and harshly if needs be. I can't do anything about the kids until I do something about their parents and I will never let some irresponsible bad parents allow their kids to harm mine regardless the outcome when the law steps in after they had the chance to do something before it got out of hand.

A few years ago some rotten kid thought it would be fun to throw rocks at my boy and tagged him good near his eye. Had the ex wife not called the police and had the police not threatened to arrest the parents if their kid came near mine I would have been kicking in a door a getting some bad parenting eliminated.

Some things you gotta let happen, others are completely in your hands and your children are in your hands until they turn 18. How you choose to parent and accept other parenting styles is up to you, but it is your job to protect your kids (even from themselves if need be) until their 18th birthday. 'nuff said.
 
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