Eh. Can't agree with you, John, about the reasons the .45 GAP isn't so popular.
You want to come up with a new cartridge and have it become a top seller, it's not enough to be as good as what came before. Rather, you've got to be better, and not just in one small theoretical area ("But your automatic's grip can be an eighth of an inch shorter!") but in something major.
Otherwise, you have on the one hand Glock's latest gee-whiz invention, a couple models of pistols that shoot it, and a box or two of ammo on the shelves, vs. a caliber that most of the people who would want a .45 caliber automatic pistol already have, chambered in dozens of models, and with its own private entire ammo SECTION. There are going to be the two or three guys for which that minor theoretical advantage is important, and then there will be everyone else in the entire world. Including many of the Glock fans, since one of the manufacturers making pistols chambered in .45 ACP is Glock itself...
Of course Glock is neither the first nor the last to come up with a new technologically advanced cartridge destined for immediate obscurity. Take the flurry of short magnum rifle cartridges that have come out. In that case, not only did you just create smaller cartridges duplicating performance of other calibers that had been popular for a long time, but you also have multiple manufacturers introducing competing versions, all at the same time. There was little enough chance that any of these would ever rival the popularity of the old cartridges they were set up to "replace." Having multiple varieties makes that task even tougher. It absolutely ensures that most of them will be forgotten, and the competition between different new cartridges increases the chance they all will be. Customers will wait to buy until sure which of the new cartridges will survive, and in the end none of them do, because everybody was waiting.
It's a pity, really, because they aren't BAD cartridges, but going up against a cartridge which has had a huge "installed base" for ten, twenty, or a hundred years is just a really, really tough business model.