If you want to start playing with your alloy go
"here" and download the calculator posted by Bumpo628.
Also read through some of the post as well so you get ahead of some of the FAQ's.
His calculator runs your input and gives you within reason what your going to end up with on the bottom line. The better thing is it gives a LOT of known alloys which came from reliable sources he researched in putting it together. The one thing about it is you have to us percentages of pounds for small amounts. If you using a quarter or half pound you have to input .25 or .5 for it to work properly. I use another freeware program called Convert for Windows to get things down quickly. My math skills aren't quite up to calculating it all out to the finer points when I blend up a small test batch. I can quickly change the numbers around in the calculator spreadsheet, then convert them to ounces or grains depending on which scale I need to weigh out my tin or shot in to get the blend to where it needs to be.
For adding hardness the easiest thing to use is magnum shot. You don't need a 25# bag either just a few cut open shells will do fine for a decent batch of test alloy. Now once you find something that works you simply multiply the ingredients by 2,or 4 times and run them back through the spreadsheet calculator to see where you stand. You will probably have to adjust your amounts of shot but it will save you from wasting time and material when you make up a bigger batch, or are looking for a specific hardness.
All that said I run an alloy for my cast HP's which is a 1.75/1.75/96.5 according to the calculator. It gives me very nice malleable bullets which hold together and expand very nicely up to about a 1300fps muzzle velocity out of the .357 and has been just a touch over 1600fps in the 41, and is the alloy I use for my magnum handguns in 357,41, and 44.
I recently purchased a nice Sig 226 and probably the same Lee mold your using. After pouring a few through it and another 125gr mold I already had I found that mine are also dropping between 130 and 135 depending on how I set up the other mold. It has changeable pins to allow different HP cavities to be used. Sized to .356 they all have shot great out of my pistol with no leading what so ever noted. Granted I'm not tying to push the envelope with any of them but most of the loads are running between 1050 and 1150fps. As to the hardness of my alloy, well off the calculator it shows it should be a 10.7 BHN, which when tested on my hardness tester is close coming out at around a 9-10 BHN. I have run them both plain lubed with Carnuba Red and powder coated but either way they shoot very well. These are all flat base non gas checked.
As for data yes it is a bit of a pick and choose. I use a LOT of Bullseye as well as Accurate powders so those were the ones I concentrated on finding data to work with. I used the start data loads for the closest jacketed weights both above and below then sort of split the difference in between. While this isn't always the best route to go, with lead loads you do get a touch of forgiving due to the slick nature of the bullets themselves usually giving lower pressures to begin with. It is also always better to err on the side of caution as well. Also knowing that the loads I started with, and had already shot some of, using almost the identical powder weight with 125gr bullets had no issues, I felt good in my assessment and all has worked just fine in my pistol.
I will say that there has been a LOT of either good to great results or the complete opposite in dismal results with folks working on cast loads in the 9mm. For me, I got lucky I guess in that I already had an alloy I knew would work for the pressures, I just needed to know if the size I was using would be a good fit and so far no issues. I can easily run several hundred through it with hardly any residue left behind that a standard cleaning won't take care of in about 15 minutes for the barrel. It does take about an hour to do the whole gun if I completely strip it and get down in all the nooks and crannys though. That is usually powder residue and I don't really sweat the little things that aren't in the running gear.
Hope that helps some.