Speer Says Don't Do it.
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SWolf,
I just got off the phone after a long talk with Justin at Speer. He says the Gold Dot data is strictly for the Gold Dot. He's actually made the Gold Dots, personally, and he says they are not jacketed, but are heavy plated bullets. He says some of the heavier jacketed bullets can max out below the Gold Dot's starting load. He has no way to know who made your bullets, so there is, unfortunately no simple answer here.
In your shoes, given your bullet's length, I think I would try seating at 1.13" and start with 5.5 grains of Power Pistol. It may not even function the gun, but that will let you work up until it does cycle, while watching for pressure signs. But I'd rather clear a gun that didn't cycle than clean up pieces. Justine also warned against using magnum primers in the 9 mm. I'd not heard that this was a problem before, but he described a scenario he said they'd seen repeated several times in which what he calls "over ignition" by the magnum primer caused modest charges to get peaky and batter guns until they let go after a few hundred rounds. Not worth risking it.
Justine reiterated
what Allan Jones said about different bullet designs. Basically, 60 years ago everyone made bullets about the same and load data for any two the same weight worked for them all at that weight. Then Nosler came along with the Partition and Barnes with the solids and pretty soon everybody had different jacket thicknesses and bullet hardness and different bearing surface lengths, etc, etc.
Justin said a fellow having a pressure problem complained to him that he'd selected charges by bullet weight for 50 years, and suddenly he has a problem and wanted to know what happened, and Justin said he had to tell the fellow that the what happened was the world had changed and he hadn't. Now you have to get load data from the bullet maker for each particular bullet to be sure of it. Otherwise you are in untested territory.