Speer Gold Dot 124 gr. +P or any variation of the Gold Dot (Pro Load, Georgia Arms)
Winchester Ranger SXT 127 gr. +P+
Federal EFMJ 124 gr. +P
Since you're using a short barrel, you may want to consider 115 gr.
I've heard that the Speer Gold Dot 115 gr. +P+ is good. I've also heard good things about the Federal 9BPLE +P+ Hi Shok.
According to a test by a guy from parkcitiestactical, the Hydrashoks have a lot of flash, but it could be different from gun to gun.