I have a Taurus Raging Bull in that caliber with a 6 1/2" ported barrel. I assure you; it doesn't just look mean, it is mean. I've shot Magtech 260 gr bullets through it and even with the ported barrel, the recoil is tremendous. I wouldn't say unbearable, but after each shot, I paused for at least 30 seconds before the next one. The recoil goes straight back to your hands. It feels like someone slapped me really hard in the hands. I can't comment on accuracy yet since I wanted to get the feel of it initially. I did do better than I thought, but that is really not saying much.
Even with the recoil, I still enjoy shooting this gun. I would recommend you get the Taurus or if you select another type of gun, get the barrel ported. FWIW, I got a box of 20 rounds of Magtech ammo for $18.99, but that's about as cheap as I've found around here. Hope this helps.