32 pocket autos
Reliability is the number one factor to consider. I have had several 22, 25, 380 and 32s and lets face it the 32 is better than the 22 or 25 and is much better than a knife and really a "better shoot or I'm gonna die" kinda carry piece. When I am in a safer area I feel very comfortable with it. If I am going into a housing project at night I might feel a little under gunned. Having said that, size and weight for this type of carry gun is the second factor. Too big or too heavy and she won't carry it and when/if she needs it, it will be in the dash or under the seat. Sometimes clothing has limitations on what we can carry too. although fantasic options do exsist where they didn't 5 years ago. Personally I don't want to hang a belt pack on my hip when I am running into a convience store and revolvers buldge in pants pockets and can snag if the hammer is not bobbed.
I have a p94 Ruger with laser that is a wonderfully designed piece and while I would feel much better in the projects with it, I don't go in the projects and if I did I would take it. It is just a little big for stuffing or carrying all day where I live.
Most of the autos mentioned here will work. I have heard of the Berettas jamming, but never have I seen it and really can't believe that Beretta would allow it. Seecamp is over priced but a nice piece. I don't like the fact that it is designed for only one kind of ammo. The NAA Guardian's suggested retail price is $408.00. It looks like a nice pistol too and I have no experience with it. All I can say is that they are all much heavier than they need to be.
I bought a Grendal 380 about 15 years ago. Now talk about ahead of it's time. There was this other new gun called Glock that had a synthetic frame too. The P 12 was cheap to build, pretty reliable but it had a 25 pound trigger pull. No way you can be accurate. Business went down the tubes. The gun only weighed 10 ounces though. It held 12 rounds of 380! That's a lot of power in a pp. I heard that the person who designed the Grendal had gone with a new design and company and couldn't wait to see this Kel Tec and I have to say the P 32 is an amazing carry piece. The thing is 3/4" thick and you litterally can for forget you have a piece in your pocket at 6.6 ozs. It weighs less than most loaded mags. I wear XXL glove size and I can shoot it easily. Mine is very reliable so far and the trigger action is very nice at 5 lbs. Only jam I had on the first mag, first round and the top round was sitting in the mag funny. Operator error. The rest was perfect. Really a about the perfect concealment gun. I paid about $218 for mine in parkerized finish. They use Mecgar quality mags and while a little different than the flasher and pretty NAA and Seecamps I really don' t want anyone to see this thing flash.
Having said this, I also would let my wife pick out her own piece. But show her the Kel Tec P32 first. For the same weight as the NAA 13.5 oz. or Tomcat at 16.9 oz you can get a Kel Tec P11 9mm that only weighs 14 oz. From what I understand if you have a problem with the Kel Tec you can just send it back to them and they will basically do a complete "fluff and buff" (action and trigger job) for you. They have waistband clips, chains to hang them around your neck and other mag options. Really hard to beat and P32 owners seem to really love them all over. I Haven't heard much bad about them.....they even come in different colors! She will love it.