I don't deer hunt with my 223, but I do shoot pigs and coyotes. And some of the pigs get rather large. So far, in my actual use, I've used 55 gr Nosler BT's on coyotes and they work great. On pigs, however, they didn't kill the pigs quite fast enough, causing me to blood trail through vines and thorns. So I went to different bullets. I can say that the 60 gr Nosler Partition, if not the best, is tied for best. The 65 grain Sierra Gameking seems as good and is very very accurate - more so than the Partition. I also bought a bunch of 64 gr Nosler Bonded Solid Base bullets, but have not had a chance to try them on pigs or coyotes. If you want great accuracy, I have to suggest the 65 gr Sierra GK. If you want penetration, I ran a 60 gr Partition through a pig the long way (starting just below the tail). Impressive.
None of those bullets will stabilize in my 220 Swift. The Partition and the Nosler BSB are marginal, depending on weather, but I gave up on them and went to the Sierra 55 gr Gameking. Haven't tried that one on pigs yet.