IMO the 223 is basically best with 50-60gr bullets, I just can't see the need for a 70gr bullet or larger for the 223 if I want to move up I will go to the 6mm.
Several Reasons: The ability to use heavier bullets allows you to use the 223 varmint hunting in windy areas. Never saw a PD town where the wind didn't blow.
Heavy bullets extend the range of the 223.
223s are required in AR service rifle matches, not 6 MMs, to be competitive you're gonna have to shoot heavy bullets, light one's just wont cut it at 600 & 1000 yards.
In High Power Matches the ARs have allowed more ladies and younger shooters to be competitive then the M1A/M14s, that alone is a big selling point to me.
Many places allow 223s for deer hunting, the heavier bullets would be more effective on deer/antelope size animals.
I agree one rifle can't do it all, but if you are going to shoot a 223, why not go to a twist that will allow light and heavy bullets.
But the AR isn't "best" with 50 - 60 grn bullets, the AR is best if you can shoot 50-90 grn bullets where you can cover a wider spectrum of shooting with a 223 AR.
Plus, its cheaper to shoot 223s then ARs.